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\n\t\u201cI\u2019m a lover, not a fighter \/ And I\u2019m really built for speed,\u201d sang Kinks frontman Ray Davies in at least one of the songs that shares a title with Slovakian writer-director Martina Buchelov\u00e1\u2018s hugely appealing first feature. The first half of that lyric is true of Andrej (Adam Kubala), the shambling 20-year-old protagonist of this generation-specific romantic comedy; the second, not so much, as he spends much of this deliberately meandering, discursive film trying to restart a life that has stalled in spite of all his worst efforts. Structured as a patchwork of loosely connected, inconsistently chronological episodes, \u201cLover, Not a Fighter\u201d feels rhythmically shaggy in a way that reflects the insecurities, anxieties and liberties of GenZ living, without patronizing its drifting characters. <\/p>\n

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\n\tA Slovakian-Czech co-production that premiered to gales of laughter from local audiences at Karlovy Vary, Buchelov\u00e1\u2019s debut stands as an unusually crowdpleasing winner of the festival\u2019s Proxima competition \u2014 a showcase intended as an adventurous, discovery-oriented counterpart to the fest\u2019s main Crystal Globe awards, and often given over to more experimental works. With its freewheeling construction and distinctive, deadpan comic tone, \u201cLover, Not a Fighter\u201d is plenty unconventional, but still broadly accessible \u2014 perhaps not every iota of its peculiar Eastern European humor translates, but more than enough does to make for a potential word-of-mouth charmer on the festival circuit going forward.<\/p>\n

\n\tSome of the film\u2019s more precious affectations \u2014 notably its longwinded chapter headings and intertitles, heavy on irony and incidental detail \u2014 would risk being grating if they weren\u2019t also funny, in line with the protagonist\u2019s own droll, distracted way of expressing himself. \u201cAbout Andrej, who doesn\u2019t hang out at tram stops anymore, but sits in a tree and lives with his grandma,\u201d reads his onscreen introduction, which may be a bit cute, but certainly paints a picture. No longer a teenager but not yet ready for adulthood, Andrej is semi-estranged from his parents (who have split, and appear considerably more preoccupied with their new partners than with their son), and given to binge-drinking; unsurprisingly, he\u2019s some way off finding a direction in life.<\/p>\n

\n\tIn an attempt to save himself from himself, he moves in with his loving, good-humored but helpfully no-nonsense grandmother (Jaroslava Pokorn\u00e1), and quits drinking cold turkey, though not his enduring oddball habit of climbing trees in public. The arrangement works well, at least until his similarly aged, similarly adrift cousin Pet\u2019o (Franti\u0161ek Bele\u0161) hits on the same idea, cuing an awkward turf war between two young men more alike than they realize in their social ineptitude. <\/p>\n

\n\tSuch concerns become secondary, however, when Andrej is smitten by shy, sharp-witted Mi\u0161a (Michaela Kostkov\u00e1) and she, against all odds, sees something in his hangdog slacker energy. It\u2019s not long, however, before he gauchely scuppers whatever they had going; the ensuing romantic repair job is a halting one, further delayed by sidebars involving Mi\u0161a\u2019s romantically na\u00efve younger sister (Mia Sofia Arp\u00e1\u0161ov\u00e1) and doomsday-fixated father (Jaro Vojtek), not to mention the cousins\u2019 gradual rapprochement. <\/p>\n

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\n\tIn drawing and assembling these variously angry, eccentric or unmoored characters, Buchelov\u00e1\u2019s fleet, witty script resists the kind of banal generational generalizations that are currently the preserve of front-facing comedy: There\u2019s refreshingly little meme-style humor in a film that rests heavily on well-written, sometimes squirmingly uncomfortable conversation. But the film does identify something truthful and empathetic in the behavioral quirks and blind spots of a generation reared online \u2014 even Adam Mach\u2019s limber, unpolished camerawork evokes the roaming spontaneity of smartphone shooting \u2014 in times of constant political, economic and environmental pessimism, as well as those of their elders, who probably could have set a less chaotic and self-involved example for living. <\/p>\n

\n\tHelping keep us largely on the kids\u2019 side is a performance of great goofball physicality and amiably behind-the-beat delivery by Kubala, who never makes Andrej a complete punchline \u2014 even when he\u2019s peering out at the world through the folds of his duvet on the living-room floor, watching anemic morning TV and eating preserved cherries from the jar. We\u2019ve all been that loser at some point or other in our lives, which makes it easy to invest in his haphazard recovery project \u2014 and in his would-be romance with Mi\u0161a, also rendered a real, intelligent, slightly messy person rather than a sitcom type by Kostkov\u00e1. <\/p>\n

\n\t\u201cLover, Not a Fighter\u201d isn\u2019t programmatic in its whimsy; even when it\u2019s aggravating, it\u2019s humanly so. \u201cI don\u2019t think that you\u2019re a bad person, but you are very sad, and that\u2019s why you\u2019re so stupid,\u201d says Pet\u2019o to his cousin in what passes for a tender moment between them \u2014 a statement of blunt candor and compassion that rather matches the approach of Buchelov\u00e1\u2019s strange, sweet, winning film.<\/p>\n

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\t\t\u2018Lover, Not a Fighter\u2019 Review: Freewheeling Slovak Charmer Charts a Sober (but Not Solemn) GenZ Romance<\/p>\n<\/h2>\n

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\t\tReviewed at Karlovy Vary Film Festival (Proxima Competition), July 8, 2026. Running time: 108 MIN.<\/p>\n<\/h2>\n

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  • \nProduction:<\/strong>
    \n(Slovakia-Czech Republic) A Ninja Film, Nochi Film, Unit, Sofa Praha production in co-production with Slovak Television and Radio. Producers: Michaela Kalisk\u00e1, Erika Paulinsk\u00e1, Julie Markov\u00e1 \u017d\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1.\t\t\t<\/li>\n
  • \nCrew:<\/strong>
    \nDirector, screenplay: Martina Buchelov\u00e1. Camera: Adam Mach. Editors: Marek Bihu\u0148, Katar\u00edna Pavelkov\u00e1. Music: Adam Matej, Marek Buranovsk\u00fd.\t\t\t<\/li>\n
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    \nAdam Kubala, Michaela Kostkov\u00e1, Franti\u0161ek Bele\u0161, Jaroslava Pokorn\u00e1, Mia Sofia Arp\u00e1\u0161ov\u00e1, Adam Bur\u010d\u00edk, Jaroslav Vojtek, Mari\u00e1n Mita\u0161, Lenka Libjakov\u00e1, Eva B\u00e1ndor. (Slovak dialogue) \t\t\t<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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